So There We Were...

"As your experience extends and deepens, your memory becomes richer and more complex."
John O'Donohue

The feeling of the powerful machine beneath you on the open road exposed to the elements as you glide through the twists and turns is an exhilarating sense of freedom. Riding a motorcycle helps to clear negative clutter from the mind, and a ride one beautiful Saturday afternoon did just that for me, plus more.

Our route included a mountain road with steep grades and a few tight curves, with speed limits ranging from 35 mph to 55 mph. So, there we were clipping along at 55 mph climbing a steep grade when we start to see signs indicating road construction ahead. The passing lane going up the hill was closed, so we all shifted to the right. 

The speed limit started to drop from 55 to 45 as we entered the construction zone with another sign indicating loose gravel ahead. I let out a big sigh - manageable but not preferred (at least for a Harley rider).  

I then see the dreaded sign that elicits a rush of adrenaline and a string of curse words from me, "Bikers use extreme caution." The paved road dropped off to a very rough construction dirt road that seemed like it lasted for miles. I shifted to a lower gear and followed my husband through the jarring gravel road and teeth-rattling washboard. 

Because these bikes are not designed for this type of terrain, it takes skill and confidence for a Harley rider to navigate these road conditions. I have been through worse construction zones and know I can get through it, but it doesn't mean I like them.

Million Dollar Bogan
Adventure bikes are designed for off-road adventures. But Australian YouTube moto vlogger Daniel Hayes (aka Million Dollar Bogan) loves pushing the envelope by riding off-road with his Harley. Particularly in areas where only adventure bikes or 4-wheel drive vehicles would dare to go.

At first, I thought Daniel was nuts to ride on some of these roads (i.e., the rough road to Deadhorse, Alaska, or through India and Nepal to Mt. Everest). And even though I occasionally question his judgment - he does end up in some precarious situations - I have come to respect him and why he plans these extreme ventures.

Daniel has openly shared about his challenge with depression and addiction. In addition to the fun motorcycling offers, he and many others ride to help increase mental wellness. Studies have shown that riding a motorcycle is as beneficial to the mind and soul as meditation. I, too, seek wind therapy to untangle my mind and find solace in life.

After silently cursing the construction zone's project manager, my mind wandered to Daniel Hayes. When he sees a dirt road leading from the highway, he will take it just to see where it goes, regardless of how rugged the terrain may appear - beaches seem to be a particular draw to him. Because these routes are so demanding, he frequently drops his bike or gets stuck. But Daniel perseveres, and eventually, he figures his way out or someone happens along to help him. His videos are not scripted and provide an authentic perspective of what he puts himself through on these quests - fear, misery, anger, frustration, loneliness, elation, and joy.  And despite the hardships, at the end of the journey, he relishes his success in completing his expedition

Liberation
And isn't this the point?! To challenge yourself to go beyond your edge, overcoming barriers and difficult situations so you can shout, "I DID IT!" and revel in the success that courses through your bloodstream!

Throughout my life, I strive to push myself to become proficient at whatever I set my mind to (motorcycles, writer, speaker, gardener, hiker, wife, mother, friend, therapist, good human being, etc.). Confidence and knowledge have bloomed along the way. As a rider, I no longer fear the construction zones, rain, or wind. 

Obstacles still make me grip the bike a little tighter and make my heart pound faster. But when it is over, the sense of liberation and empowerment is unparalleled.

As the construction zone ended and we were on pavement again, I wondered what it would be like to take some of the adventures that Daniel Hayes has taken. Could I ride a Harley Davidson to Deadhorse, Alaska, or the outback of Australia? Maybe.

There is a part of me that would like to try. I know I would experience misery, fear, disappointment, frustration, and fun, joy, gratification. But once completed, the elation of the accomplishment would make my heart soar!

© 2013-2020 Kelly Marker, Charlie’s Wisdom All Rights Reserved

The information and material on this blog are based on my personal opinions and experiences.  It is not intended as professional mental health advice.  The ideas and strategies should never be used without first assessing your mental health situation, or without consulting a mental health professional. My thoughts and opinions will continue to evolve and change as I continue to grow and learn.

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